Am I The A**hole For Telling My Co-Worker "Get Over Your Dead Wife"?

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SYNOPSIS: OP Has A Male Co-Worker Who Wears A Wedding Band. Unfortunately, His Wife Passed Away. OP Finds This Confusing. Why Would He Want To Wear A Wedding Band When His Wife Is Dead? She Calls Her Co-Worker Out On This, And Her Co-Worker Basically Tells Her To Mind Her Own Business. OP Doubles Down And Insists That OP Should Take Off His Wedding Band, Which Deeply Upsets Her Co-Worker. Now OP Wants To Know If She Was The A**hole In That Situation!

STORIES:

1. Am I The A**hole For Making An Uncomfortable Joke When My Friend Told Me Her Dinner Table Was Full With Family? (Jokester)

2. [FEATURED] Am I The A**hole For Telling My New Co-Worker It Was Misleading Of Him To Be Wearing His Wedding Band When He's A Widower? (How Dare You Love Your Dead Wife Still)

3. Am I The A**hole For Saying I Prefer Sushi To Children? (Sushi Is Greater Than Children)

4. Am I The A**hole For Helping My Sister End Her Pregnancy And Possibly Her Marriage? (Endings)

5. Am I The A**hole For Refusing To Make A $120 Cut Of Steak Well Done? (Steak Snob)

Wow, some ridiculous ones here >_< .

Obviously the abusive husband was the worst person here, but... why did that host have to be so snobby about steak :-/ ? That one made me shake my head too...

Kyng wrote:Wow, some ridiculous ones here >_< .

Obviously the abusive husband was the worst person here, but... why did that host have to be so snobby about steak :-/ ? That one made me shake my head too...

I agree wholeheartedly, but it was the featured story that got me. How do you tell a widower (or even a widow) to take off their wedding band as it's "misleading" to others? Has OP thought about that this man respects his late wife and hopes to one day to be reunited with her in spirit? I think OP is taking the "Til Death Do Us Part" portion of wedding vows WAY too seriously... for anyone but his/her self!